Category: Observations

  • What is Meditation?

    What is Meditation?

    Origin of the English Word Meditation

    ‘Meditation’ – derived from the Latin meditatio, from a verb meditari, meaning “to think, contemplate, devise, ponder”.

    Interesting that the word’s English origins point toward more engaged mental activity than I tend to associate with meditation. To me, even contemplation involves less active thinking and more pondering or a daydreaming (floating thoughts) quality. I’ve never been interested in meditation for stress relief or feeling better about myself or life. For me, meditation is about allowing what is more subtle and real to rise more to the foreground of experience – to the point where the meditator and the meditating are one.

    In the Old Testament, hagâ means to sigh or murmur, and also, to meditate. When the Hebrew Bible was translated into Greek, hagâ became the Greek melete. The Latin Bible then translated hagâ/melete into meditatio. The use of the term meditatio as part of a formal, stepwise process of meditation goes back to the 12th-century monk Guigo II.

    Sighing and murmuring link meditation to the breath and chanting or mantras in my thinking.

    The Tibetan word for meditation “Gom” means “to become familiar with” and has the strong implication of training the mind to be familiar with states that are beneficial: concentration, compassion, correct understanding, patience, humility, perseverance, etc.

    For me, ‘to become familiar with,’ points to absorption and the nondual – knowing by being.

    ‘Meditation’ was introduced as a translation for Eastern spiritual practices, referred to as dhyana in Buddhism and in Hinduism.

    Dhyan is a state of pure consciousness, which transcends the inner and outer senses. The climax of Dhyan is samadhi. In Indian tradition, it is used for inner soul growth. Western psychologists link it with mental concentra-tion and consider it a special state of mind. But this is only the early phase of Dhyan.

    The term ’Dhyan’ comes from ’dhyai’ dhatu used in ’lat’ pratyaya. Its meaning is contemplation or the natural tendency and direction of senses. Patanjal Yogashastra links it with ekagrata or concentration. According to Sri Aurobindo, Dhyan is that state in which the inner mind tries to see the reality behind things. Ekagrata means focusing the consciousness on one point or object and keeping it steady in one state. In yoga, ekagrata is achieved when the mind is deeply engrossed in a special condition like quietude, or action or aspiration or resolve. This is called meditation.  Read more»

    History of Meditation

    Some of the earliest references to meditation are found in the Hindu Vedas (1500 BCE). Around the 6th to 5th centuries BCE, other forms of meditation developed in Taoist China and Buddhist India.

    In the west, by 20 BCE Philo of Alexandria had written on some form of “spiritual exercises” involving attention (prosoche) and concentration and by the 3rd century Plotinus had developed meditative techniques.

    Philo’s primary importance is in the development of the philosophical and theological foundations of Christianity.

    Plotinus developed a complex spiritual cosmology involving three elements: the One, the Intelligence, and the Soul. It is from the productive unity of these three Beings that all existence emanates, according to Plotinus.

    The Pali Canon, which dates to 1st century BCE considers Indian Buddhist meditation as a step towards salvation. The Vimalakirti Sutra which dates to 100 CE included a number of passages on meditation. Around 1227, D?gen wrote the instructions for Zazen.

    In his “Universally Recommended Practices for Zazen” Fukanzazengi he says, “The zazen I speak of is not meditation practice [in the traditional Buddhist sense]. It is simply the Dharma gate of peace and bliss, the practice-realization of totally culminated awakening.” Dogen’s zazen is a ritual expression and celebration of awakening already present. He repeatedly emphasizes the oneness of practice-realization, in which practice does not lead through one’s own efforts to some subsequent realization. For example, in 1241 he said, “Know that buddhas in the buddha way do not wait for awakening.” Read more»

    The Islamic practice of Dhikr had involved the repetition of the 99 Names of God since the 8th or 9th century. Between the 10th and 14th centuries, hesychasm was developed, particularly on Mount Athos in Greece, and involves the repetition of the Jesus prayer. Christian meditation progressed from the 6th century practice of Bible reading among Benedictine monks called Lectio Divina, i.e. divine reading. Its four formal steps as a “ladder” were defined by the monk Guigo II in the 12th century with the Latin terms lectio, meditatio, oratio, and contemplatio (i.e. read, ponder, pray, contemplate).

    Secular forms of meditation started appearing in India in the 1950s and migrated to the United States in the 1960s.

    Reading about the etymology and history of ‘meditation’ gives me some insight into how the meaning of a word evolves through time and cultures, but also how the mind reifies concepts. It’s also interesting to note, my opinion, that as meditation became more secular, it seems to have lost much of its spiritual, transcendent and transformational power. A daily sitting practice can be one of the simplest, yet challenging forms of meditation.

     Simply sitting and meditating is not necessarily practice. Practice requires true intention, true motivation, true devotion to the truth. Otherwise, we are not practicing or engaging the work.  A. H. Almaas – Runaway Realization

  • The Abandoned Meditator

    The Abandoned Meditator

    Does Meditation Need Me?

     Is your day ever like this?

    I wake up. Lie in bed a bit. Sense, Look and Listen.
    I get out of bed, go to the bathroom, brush teeth, put some water on hair and comb, splash some water on face…
    Now it’s time to meditate. I go to the meditation chair and get situated. I do an Om salutation and I meditate.
    My meditation practice ends. I rise from the chair, leave the bedroom and…

    I had many of those days until I looked more deeply into the process and considered a different perspective. Here is the rub with that whole scenario – ‘I.’

    Do you see it? ‘I’ wake up. ‘I’ get out of bed. ‘I’… I’m even meditating!

    My whole day begins with ‘I’ and chances are it’s going to tend to stay in that groove.

    Consider this: everything is already enlightened. This would include us. Perhaps we are not aware of this and this is part of why we meditate – to ‘do’ our part toward waking up.

    meditator meditation sittingWhat is meditation?

    From a dictionary: Meditation – the action or practice of meditating.

    Note: there is no ‘I’ in that definition. Can action and practice happen without an ‘I?’ Every nondual teacher says so. Let’s take them at their word. Our ‘I’ automatically inserts itself into any action or practice. I believe I’m needed!

    These days I think of meditation and meditating as something that is always happening, like enlightenment. In fact, I think enlightenment is meditating me. Every moment of my day, I’m in meditation – whether I’m aware of it or not. I’m being meditated from the inside out, the outside in and every other way possible.

    Waking up, brushing teeth, sitting to sit – it’s all meditation happening.

    The perspective of everything is already enlightened and meditation happening at all times helps to end the divisiveness that ‘I’ provides. With this, I can simply sit, or walk, or brush my teeth and let meditation do what it does. Meditation is more relaxed, more open to influence, more curious about mysteriousness.

    It’s true – I still wake up, do those things and wind up in that chair, but each movement has less ownership by ’I’ and more inclusion.

     

     

     

     

     

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    My Ass

     I used to have
    The most obnoxious
    Worrisome, and stubborn
    Ass
    It was a bother and burden
    I would wish on no one
    So, I could not
    In all good conscious
    Rid my self of it
    Then, a Friend
    Told me of a method
    To break my ass
    Of all its contrariness
    So, I bought a chair
    And every day
    I made my ass
    Sit in that chair
    Oh! what fights and struggles we had
    That lazy ass so resistant to ever
    Going anywhere or doing any real work
    Now, could not and would not
    Sit still
    But, my Friend
    Had warned me of this stage
    So, I persisted
    In putting my ass in that chair
    Ignoring all of its
    Childish braying and petulance
    Slowly over time
    That chair
    Responded to the weight
    Of my ass
    Molding itself
    Into the only place
    My ass was ever
    Really relaxed and comfortable
    Now
    I could not get my ass
    Out of that chair
    It refused to be
    Anywhere else
    So, I left my ass
    In that chair
    While I went about
    My daily affairs
    Until one day
    My ass
    Disappeared
    And
    Took me with it

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Continual Practice

    Continual Practice

     Going Nowhere Meditation

    meditation chairOne gift of continual practice is that stopping and starting, beginning and ending our practice is no longer relevant.

    All practice involves awareness and presence.  As we know, these aspects of True Nature are fundamental to experience. Attending to and cultivating awareness and presence is practice. What difference does it make if we attend and cultivate when we sit or move, in silence or in chaos, at morning or at night?

    I used to think I needed to quiet my mind to meditate and practice – ha! Presence and awareness are just as much a part of both. When I meditate in this chair with the window open, what difference is it to me if a truck goes by, or people walk by talking, or birds sing or it is the middle of the night and dead calm? Practice is being with awareness and presence.

    And, it’s not like there is only 10% presence in cacophony. There is 100% presence in any situation or circumstances. Practice is not to go from 10% presence to 100% presence because there is nowhere to go, it’s all 100%, but I may not experience pure presence as I am there to some degree. What I can do is bring 100% of me to whatever degree of presence I am experiencing and forget about changing anything.

    If our mind is chattering, why not tend to the presence in that experience? If our mind wanders, instead of leaving that experience and starting over, why not simply tend to the presence in the wandering?

    So as we learn to value not arriving, we arrive, for true arriving is a matter of not leaving, not departing. Usually, we are always leaving ourselves, always departing; and we think we are going someplace. When we try to go someplace, all we end up doing is separating from our true nature. We are always trying to find our true nature by going away from it. So inquiry takes us to the point where we simply recognize how we are leaving—and the ideas and beliefs that make us feel that we should leave. When it truly reveals its fundamental ground, inquiry teaches us not to go anywhere—because there is nowhere to go. – A. H. Almaas, Spacecruiser Inquiry

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    Think of continual practice as a river. As we move through our day, the river flows. When we sit, we are like a pool in the river. The water is presence, the state of dynamism doesn’t decrease water being 100% water.

    On this planet, water flows according to topography and gravity. Water doesn’t care about obstacles, why should we? If we encounter an obstacle, why not be like water behind a damn – let our awareness of presence build in the immediacy of being with the obstacle. Eventually, we may discover the obstacle is merely presence, or the obstacle will no longer be able to hold back the presence or we will simply reach a point where we overflow the obstacle.

    Why concern ourselves with outcomes when we can simply be with presence and allow nature to take its course?

  • Tantra of Everyday Life

    Tantra of Everyday Life

    Beyond Sex Tantra and  Tantra & Yoga in Everyday Life

    I’ve been working with the Ridhwan School to help promote their upcoming 5-day retreat on Tantra of Everyday Life. My initial efforts focused on distributing the flyer and getting it posted on Facebook and a PR release.

    The next step was working with others to help create this video interview by Tami Simon (Sounds True) with A. H. Almaas and Karen Johnson.

     Then I turned to getting the retreat listed on online event calendars and reaching out to blogsites with comments and emails to bloggers. While doing this I found this great article from 1995 by Swami Niranjanananda Saraswati – Tantra and Yoga in Everyday From the article:

    In yoga we gradually open all the doors of our personality. Therefore, jnana, understanding and awareness, is the first principle, and sadhana, systematic practice, is the second principle or practical aspect of tantra. But we are not confined to a meditative process in which we sit and internalize and begin to observe the body, mind, emotions, nature etc. Tantra is also living meditation – it affects how we live moment to moment. The instincts that manifest within and control our actions and behaviour, instincts of love, desire, security, fear and sexual satisfaction, are all to be observed and known.

    There are many misconceptions about tantra. Tantra is generally seen as indulgence, as a way of life which allows total freedom. But the practical yogic components with which we work in tantra in relation to our daily life are awareness and meditation. Tantra and yoga are complementary. In tantra you will find a very broad system which allows you to understand and accept your life as it is without imposing change. Rather you allow transformation to gradually happen as you become intensely aware of your experiences and expressions.

    beyond sex tantraI also came across Beyond Sex Tantra by Tanja Diamond. 

    My definition of the concept of Tantra is: “Tantra is the ultimate love affair with yourself and all of your existence. In the process of igniting your internal flame, you come to experience all ordinary moments as extraordinary experiences. Immersed in that experience, you realize that you are the divine, there is nothing else to need or want, but that moment.”

    Only 3 percent of Tantra is even related to sex. Yes, you say, but sex is the part you want to learn about.

    Well here’s the thing. You can not have a truly spiritual sexual relationship with another until you have a truly spiritual life with yourself and others with your clothes on.

    Then I created another video and posted it on FB and the web.

     I suppose, like many, I associate the word tantra first and mostly with sex, Kama Sutra and such. I guess this is the the result of good advertising by sexual tantrikas over the years and the erotic and exotic attraction of far-east mysteries.

    A. H. Almaas and Karen Johnson authored The Power of Divine Eros last year. I’m assuming that Tantra of Everyday Life will delve deeper into the subject matter of that book and take Quasar2014 attendees somewhere revelatory within themselves while keeping their clothes on.

     

  • Sacred Relationships, Joy & Divine Eros

    Moving Deeper into Intimacy and the Sacred

    My friends, Dixon and Valorie, partners in life and at Integral Partnerships, are concentrating some of their attention and efforts on working with couples interested in deepening the connection to the sacred in relationship.

    Moving deeper into the realm of intimacy and divine eros via relatinship has been a conscious desire in me for many years now. Liberating Joy in Relationship is the first workshop Dixon and Valorie will be offering for couples seeking to deepen the sacred in their relationship. Part of the workshop will focus on how the inner critic can cause havoc in relationships and disconnect us from our natural state of joy and eros.

    The other day, I was talking with Dixon and Valorie about one of my favorite sayings – “50% of something is nothing.” This speaks directly to how both parties can lose in compromise. In a very real way, most compromises result in each party losing something, especially at an emotional level. What I have found is that open-ended inquiry by both parties can open up each side of the dialectic in a way that an unforeseen option can arise where neither party is compromising and yet the situation is resolved in a very real way.

    Many times, if not most of the times, our positions that we compromise are laden with baggage from the past and arrested development we would just as soon keep unconscious.

    Take a look at some of the articles being posted on Integral Partnerships and if you have a Facebook profile, give Journey or Two a like.

  • The Value of Suffering

    Suffering Serves the Soul’s Journey

    Between flights the other day in Detroit, I picked up the latest issue of Rolling Stone with Louis CK on the cover and read this gem:

    The worst thing happening to this generation is that they’re taking discomfort away from themselves… Louis Ck

    Meher BabaIt reminded me of some ending comments and observations in this video about sociopaths – that our culture, more and more, supports moving away from emotional conflict through drugs. Feeling anxious, feeling depressed, feeling forlorn – take a pill. I’m not knocking the pills or that some people certainly need the support, but the point in the film and what I hear Louis CK noting is that average people are being seduced by big pharma that any emotional suffering is a good reason to pop a pill. Their message is quite a bit different from Meher Baba‘s – Don’t Worry, Be Happy.

     

     What do those that look beyond the suffering or those that understand the deeper nature of suffering say?

    Until you’ve found pain, you won’t reach the cure
    Until you’ve given up life, you won’t unite with
       the supreme soul
    Until you’ve found fire inside yourself, like the Friend,
    You won’t reach the spring of life, like Khezr (the green man) – Rumi

    So to really deal with the issue of suffering, we need to understand reality. We need to go all the way through the process of realization. The process of realization, of understanding the truth, is a process of understanding and relieving oneself from suffering. There is no shortcut; there is only one way. What’s causing suffering cannot be surmounted, cannot simply be dropped, cannot be ignored, cannot even be erased by some essential awakening or realization. Suffering is a fundamental factor in our lives that has to be dealt with. We need a lot of study and understanding; we need to go through all the dimensions before we can exit the realm of suffering. Many of us hope we can exit right away, hope we can transcend our problems through spiritual experience. But unless we actually penetrate our beliefs and identifications, our life will always involve suffering. A. H. Almaas

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