The type of friends we choose says a lot about us. Our friends support us, influence us and hopefully challenge us.. The best friends are those that are willing to hold our feet to the fire when we’re not being authentic. These friends are not only there for us when times are tough, they’re there for us in the worst of times.
As human beings, we all make mistakes. Sooner or later, we are going to let someone down or hurt someone’s feelings. Friends know this, but don’t excuse our actions. Friends are willing to be straight with us and in return, ask us to be straight with them.
A compassionate friend during times of grief or sorrow is a blessing. A warrioir friend who helps us to cut through our own bullshit is a Godsend.
Friends are precious. Friends are dear. Sometimes we choose our friends. Sometimes they choose us. Sometimes the universe just throws us together.
Friends and friendship deserve some contemplative time, some deep thought, some emotional and spiritual exploration. Limiting our understanding of friends to a surface understanding, brings no honor, limits the appreciation and depth possible.