Give THE GIFT of Honest Feedback
We’re in the midst of the gift-giving season. As we wander the malls, the boutiques and the Internet looking for those perfect gifts, let’s not forget one of the gifts that serves the soul – honest feedback.
Superego, inner critic and self-esteem issues can inhibit us from providing valuable feedback to those we meet, greet and love. The same issues can prevent us from receiving feedback that would be invaluable for our process, growth and unfoldment.
THE GIFT often falls under the heading of – tough love. The invitation extended here is for us to be receptive to honest feedback. Embracing feedback from others is invaluable – EVEN IF IT IS TOTALLY OFF BASE.
Feedback that is insightful and on-target gives us an opportunity to see ourselves more clearly and take corrective action. Feedback that misses the mark often creates a reaction in us, which provides us insight into our deeper more subtle issues and structures that continue to distort our perception of ourselves and others.
Resistance to “negative” feedback can stop us from discovering some of the most valuable insight. Some of the most profound growth opportunities (gifts) often come in wrapped in plain or ugly gift wrap.
When someone asks if we are open to feedback – consider this response – Go ahead, give me THE GIFT.
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