Tag: change

  • Finding Our Ground Amid the Chaos

    Finding Our Ground Amid the Chaos

    Wisdom for a Troubled World

    In an era of global unrest and unprecedented challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Headlines scream polarization, climate crises, economic disparity, and escalating violence. People are freaking out—understandably so. The air is thick with despair, and the horizon promises more darkness than light. Yet, history whispers to us through the voices of Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Krishnamurti, and others: in times like these, transformation begins in the streets and within our hearts.

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    Inner Battleground

    The Inner Battleground

    Reactivity is a natural response to upheaval. Anger, fear, and despair bubble up as we witness injustice and destruction.

    You think that by fighting one form of conditioning, you can break it. On the contrary, you are merely replacing one conditioning with another.
    Krishnamurti

    Reacting from fear or rage may feel cathartic, but it often perpetuates the cycles we wish to break. It narrows our vision and clouds our ability to act wisely. Actual change requires stepping out of the reactive loop and into a state of clear seeing—a state Gandhi and King understood well.

    Gandhi’s principle of ahimsa—nonviolence—shaped his political strategies and guided his inner work.

    You may never know what results come of your actions,
    but if you do nothing, there will be no result.

    Nonviolence is not passivity; it is the fierce discipline of aligning one’s thoughts, words, and deeds with love rather than hate. It demands the courage to meet the storm with clarity and conviction, not reactionary fervor.

    Lessons from the Past

    Martin Luther King Jr. described nonviolence as “a sword that heals.” He understood that activism born from hatred only deepens the wound. King’s vision of the Beloved Community was not some utopian dream—it was a call to do the hard work of bridging divides and confronting injustice without dehumanizing the oppressor.

    Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that.

    Both Gandhi and King remind us that the struggle for a better tomorrow begins with cultivating inner peace. They faced adversaries who wielded brutality and hatred, yet they chose not to mirror that darkness. Instead, they channeled their energy into disciplined action guided by higher principles.

    facing reality

    Facing Reality Without Escaping

    Krishnamurti challenges us to meet the current state of the world with radical honesty.

    The crisis, is not out there in the world; it is in our consciousness.

    When we resist facing our fears and biases, we project them outward, fueling division. To see clearly, we must first silence the noise of our conditioned minds. This doesn’t mean turning away from the world’s problems but engaging with them from a grounded awareness.

    Similarly, Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh reminds us of the power of mindfulness:

    When we recognize the suffering in ourselves and others, compassion is born.

    Breathing, feeling, and connecting with the present moment can transform despair into purposeful action.

    Building the Bridge to Tomorrow

    The question remains: What is the most productive way to deal with current affairs? Here are some guiding principles inspired by the great teachers of peace:

    1. Don’t Allow Your Superego and Ego Ideal to Run the Show
      Get the judgment and bias out of the equation.
    2. Anchor Yourself in Inner Clarity
      Before acting, pause. Meditate. Journal. Reflect. Cultivate a space where you can observe your emotions without being ruled by them. As Gandhi said, “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” This begins by addressing your inner turmoil.
    3. Engage with Compassionate Courage
      Let your actions be fueled by love, not hatred. This doesn’t mean condoning injustice but approaching it to heal, not punish. King’s vision of a Beloved Community offers a blueprint: dialogue, education, and nonviolent action as tools for transformation.
    4. Seek Unity, Not Division
      Tribalism is the hallmark of the times, but Krishnamurti warns us: “When you call yourself an Indian or a Muslim or a Christian or a European, or anything else, you are being violent.” Labels divide; humanity unites. Can we act as global citizens, rising above identity politics to address shared challenges?
    5. Take Small, Steady Steps
      The enormity of the world’s problems can paralyze us. Gandhi reminds us: “In a gentle way, you can shake the world.” Focus on what is within your reach—your local community, your workplace, your family. Small, consistent efforts ripple outward.
    6. Be Willing to Do the Inner Work
      Facing the darkness within is perhaps the hardest task of all. But as Krishnamurti says, “To transform the world, we must begin with ourselves.” Question your beliefs, explore your conditioning, and cultivate a deeper awareness of the forces driving your actions.

    A Call to Action with Presence

    The times we live in demand more than reaction—they demand response. To meet today’s challenges, we must act not from fear or rage but from a place of inner stability and courage. Gandhi, King, and Krishnamurti didn’t just offer lofty ideals; they lived their teachings, proving that transformation is possible even in the darkest times.

    As we navigate the tumult of the present, let us remember: the storm outside is a reflection of the storm within. The way forward begins here, with you, in this moment. Let your response be rooted in love, guided by wisdom, and driven by the unwavering belief that a better tomorrow is possible—even if we may not live to see it.

  • Spiritual Quotes on Change

     Top 10 Spiritual Quotes on Change

    SSpiritual Quotes Changepiritual quotes on change for those who want to change, don’t want to change or want others to change!

    Have you ever been asked for spare change? Did you happen to have some change to spare? I’m not taking coins here, I’m talking honest to goodness change – and not a coat of paint either. Real, authentic change is often challenging because it requires a break from the past.

    change or die spiritual quoteMany of us spend much, if not all, of our lives stuck in being the same person we were at 10 or 16 or 20 – with the exemptions of less hair, more weight, broken dreams, etc. One of the better books I have read on the subject of change is Change or Die – which has some insight on why many people choose to die instead of choosing to change.

    My father tells a story about a friend of his and my mother’s that got cancer. When it came time to decide on chemotherapy, she wasn’t sure about taking chemotherapy because she would lose all of her hair – which was a great pride to her.

    Here are a few quotes to ponder about change from a spiritual perspective – wait a sec – isn’t it all spiritual??

    • You must be the change you wish to see in the world. ~ Mahatma Gandhi
    • “One act of surrender, one change of heart, one leap of faith, can change your life forever.” -Robert Holden

    • “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ~Victor Frankl
    • “The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.”- Alan Watts
    • “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” –  Dr. Wayne Dyer
    • “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable.” – Helen Keller
    • Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change our world. – Buddha
    • “Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.” – Dali Lama
    • “The first step toward change is acceptance.” “Once you accept yourself, you open the door to change. That’s all you have to do.” “Change is not something you do, it’s something you allow.”- Will Garcia
    • “You cannot change what is happening now so that you become yourself. You are already yourself; you just need to relax into it.” – A. H. Almaas

    Admit It and Change Everything  –  Rumi

    Define and narrow me, you starve yourself of yourself.
    Nail me down in a box of cold words, that box is your coffin.
    I do not know who I am.
    I am in astounded lucid confusion.

    I am not a Christian, I am not a Jew, I am not a Zoroastrian,
    And I am not even a Muslim.
    I do not belong to the land, or to any known or unknown sea.
    Nature cannot own or claim me, nor can heaven,

    Nor can India, China, Bulgaria,
    My birthplace is placelessness,
    My sign to have and give no sign.
    You say you see my mouth, ears, eyes, nose – they are not mine.

    I am the life of life.
    I am that cat, this stone, no one.
    I have thrown duality away like an old dishrag,
    I see and know all times and worlds,

    As one, one, always one.
    So what do I have to do to get you to admit who is speaking?
    Admit it and change everything!
    This is your own voice echoing off the walls of God.  

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  • Personal Transformation

    The Point of Life is Transformation

    change transformationPain & Suffering – the ego likes to avoid as much of this as it can, unless, of course, our identity is one who suffers. Every time I encounter a person asking for spare change, I wonder how much change they really want in their life. How much “change” do any of us really want? How much change can God spare, probably a lot. How much can we endure, probably a lot less than opportunity offers.

    I read A Million Miles in a Thousand Days by Donald Miller yesterday on a flight home from San Francisco.

    We get robbed of the glory of life because we aren’t capable of remembering how we got here. When you are born, you wake up slowly to everything… God is slowly turning the lights on… The experience is so slow you could easily come to believe life isn’t that big of a deal, that life isn’t staggering… We all are like spoiled children no longer impressed with the gifts we’re given – it’s just another sunset, just another rainstorm, just another child born, just another funeral.

    This is a wonderful book for all kinds of reasons. I think it is one of the best self-help books ever written because it isn’t so much giving you advice on how to change as it is a revelation on how change is possible – and how it is possible to reawaken to the glory of life and get out of a life that is dull, boring, normal and familiar to the point of being inert.

    In a way, it reminded me of Michael Crichton’s book Travels.Crichton, too, talked about how pain, difficulty, struggle, suffering and confronting the known limits of ourselves is the crucible for transformation.

    As Donald Miller says:

    If the point of life is the same as the point of a story, the point of life is character transformation.

    A Million Miles in a Thousand Days – take the journey.

  • Time Travel & Contentment

    Traveling in Time
    A Contented State of Mind

    time travelerMy brother-in-law, Iver, often quotes me – “Things Change!” It seems they have when it comes to time travel for me.

    After 33 years working for a major airline, I retired with little interest in traveling. Now I find myself traveling back and forth between Michigan and California on a regular basis and time seems to fly along with me. I’ve also noticed that time flies when I am driving. Driving across country, down to Chicago, up from Detroit, or just an hour to Traverse City seems like just aother moment in time.

    My experience is making me more and more curious about time, traveling and what is going on with me that seems to result in time flying.

    One thing I notice – my mindset is often that I have all the time in the world. These days, I rarely have some moment in time, the future, tied to my travel plans. I get up and go and figure – I’ll get there when I get there. A 4 or 5 hour flight used to be a pain in the old butt – literally – you know those airline seats – not enough padding, not enough room, and not enough ergonomics for most of us.

    At a 10-day retreat last year, I saw a friend of mine had a gel cushion that looked like it would be great for traveling. I purchased one and now travel through time with it. But, it’s not the extra padding that seems to be shrinking the time, aggravation, and effort associated with my traveling.

    This new sense of ease and contentment seems connected to “being with” what is happening in the moment. In hindsight, my travels these days often seem trance-like – did I just drive/fly 5 hours?? I remember the details: working the crossword, the sudoku, listening to music, etc., but the time involved seems to have flown by or compressed itself into some intra-subjective wormhole of a space.

    Perhaps one day this will all change again, but until then traveling is not as big a pain in the ass as it used to be, nor, it seems, am I to those who help me to travel through time.

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