Object Relations: The Power Behind the Throne
What makes object relations so sticky? In our exploration of object relations, we’ve determined that the “bonding agent” is the key to freeing us from being trapped in the past…
The Heartbreaking Reality of Holes
The Theory of Holes Leads Here Understanding the reality of the Theory of Holes eventually brings us to this recognition: Let’s say we’re working with a psychic hole around acceptance….
States & Stations and Optimizing Your Gifts
Objective reality calls forth from the soul what’s needed in the moment Essence calls to essence. Objective reality calls forth what is needed. If compassion is needed, compassion arises into…
Object Relations: Trauma & Healing
Healing is a deep-rooted longing Understanding healing is important. When it comes to psychological, emotional, and trauma healing, the self is the barrier to healing. Fundamental questions are: Who is…
How Object Relations Control Relating
What’s Happening? It depends on what you look at obviouslyBut even more it depends on the way that you seeBruce Cockburn, Child of the Wind We have been using this…
Orienting the Work in Time
Time has no moments The journey isn’t moving forward in time – dynamic forces at work can be interpreted by the mind as movement – explore these forces Prior to…